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Little League Parents |

Local Little Leagues are entirely volunteer organizations. Each league depends on adults like you to organize and conduct every aspect.
Not only do adults serve
as administrators, volunteer coaches, and umpires they also help with field
maintenance, fund-raising, concessions, and numerous other special projects.
Your willingness to exchange time and effort for your child's benefit and
enjoyment is very important to the functioning of your local Little League.
Cheering your daughter or son on from the stands is one important way to be
involved, but we invite you to do even more by volunteering to help run your
local Little League program.
Without a doubt, Little League is a family affair that gives parents and
children a common ground for spending time together. Whether you are
coaching the players, selling popcorn to the fans, or bringing soda for the
team after the game, your family will enjoy being a part of Little League in
your community. Most of all, your will appreciate the benefits of your
enthusiasm and involvement in his or her activities.
When wining is kept in perspective, there is room for fun in the pursuit of
victory or more accurately, the pursuit of victory is fun. With your
leadership Little League can help your child learn to accept
responsibilities, accept others and most of all, accept her - or himself.
Keeping Winning in Perspective
Are you able to keep winning in perspective? You might answer with a
confident yes, but will you be able to do so when it is your child who is
winning or losing, when your child is treated a bit roughly by someone on
the other team, or when the umpire makes a judgment against your child?
Parents are sometimes unprepared for the powerful emotions they experience
when watching their sons and daughters compete.
One reason that parents' emotions run to high is that they want their
children to do well; it reflects on them. They also may believe that their
children's failures are their own. Parents need to realize that dreams of
glory they have for their youngsters are not completely unselfish, but they
are completely human. Parents who are aware of their own pride, who are even
capable of being amused by their imperfections, can keep themselves well
under control.
Being a Model of Good
Sportsmanship
Flying off the handle at games or straining relations with the coach or
other parents creates a difficult situation for your child. Just as you
don't want your daughter or son to embarrass you, don't embarrass your
Little Leaguer.
It's no secret that kids imitate their parents. In addition, they absorb the
attitudes they think lie behind their parents' actions. As you go through
the Little League season with your child, be a positive role model. How can
you expect your child to develop a healthy perspective about competing and
winning if you display an unhealthy one? Remember Little league is supposed
to be a fun experience for your child, and one in which he or she will learn
some sport skills. Winning will take care of itself.
Some parents seem to abandon good principles of child rearing when their
child is participating in sports. However, just as your child's home,
school, and religious environment affect the type of person he or she will
be, so does the sport environment especially when your child is young.
Remember this:
If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with praise, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they have to have a goal.
If children live with honesty, they learn what trust is.
Parents Responsibilities
1. Let your child
choose to play Little League and to quit if he or she dose not enjoy
baseball. Encourage participation, but don't pressure.
2. Understand what
your child wants from participating in Little League and provide a
supportive atmosphere for achieving these goals.
3. Set limits on
your child's participation in baseball. You need to determine when she or he
is physically and emotionally ready to play and to insure that the
conditions for playing are safe.
4. Make certain
your child's coach is qualified to guide your child through the Little
League experience.
5. Keep winning in
perspective by remembering Athletes First, Winning Second. Instill this
perspective in your child.
6. Help your child
set realistic goals about his or her own performance so success is
guaranteed.
7. Help your child
understand the experiences associated with competitive sports so she or he
can learn the valuable lessons sports can teach.
8. Discipline your
when he or she misbehaves, breaks the rules, or is uncooperative or
uncontrollable.
9. Turn your
child over to the coach at practices and games, and avoid meddling or
becoming a nuisance.